Prepare to hyperventilate |
Stage one: first attempt. This is dreadful. I trail around EVERY shop. There is NOTHING to buy. Everything is SHIT and WRONG. I am desperate. I even go into TK Maxx for a whole five minutes. I get hot and tired and trail home empty-handed.
Stage two: second attempt (because it will not buy itself). Revisit a few of the shops (not TK Maxx) that, by rights, aught to have something to buy. Even though yesterday they did not. Start to see a few vaguely feasible possibilities. Tire quickly, and in slight panic buy one of the feasibles. Slink home, feeling second-rate, but at least carying something.
Stage three: third attempt. Recognise that the panic-bought item WILL NOT DO. Gird loins. Re-enter fray (not TK Maxx). This time it's different. Now I've got my eye in. Suddenly can see and buy something suitable. Relief.
Stage four: happily forget how to shop. Time passes (more than you might think).
Stage five: need to shop. Da capo*.
I know I can't cheat the system. There's no skipping straight to stage three, unless I'm prepared to stay limber with constant low-level shopping, but I simply can't do this to myself.
That's fine. But I need to remember that it WILL take three attempts. The stress comes when I do not leave myself enough time for all of these.
This time I'm on schedule. Tomorrow - the purchase of something barely adequate. Then on Saturday a small window to take back the adequate, and find the appropriate.
At this point it's essential that I have faith in the process. If I doubt it, all is lost (it's the panic that gets in my eyes, and stops me from seeing).
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