Morning run. Ahead of me, a mother and her small son who's making painfully slow progress on a scooter. As I near, the woman guides him to one side to let me pass.
'Move over, darling - let the lady through.' As I run past I thank her and she immediately corrects herself, sounding flustered. 'Oh... Err - gentleman'.
Yes. She thought I was female. Then I spoke and she realised her mistake.
I should make it clear that I am in fact female. I possess all the usual physical attributes (reasonably ample). Plus longish hair. Admittedly I am tall - 5'10" (so not freakish) and I do have a low voice, exacerbated today by a minor cold. So I guess if you weren't paying close attention...
I've been mistaken for a man before. Normally by the very elderly and short of sight, who presume tall-in-jeans means man. But I've never had someone correct themselves before. Never had someone embarrassed that they've mis-identified a man as a woman.
Which is worse? To be a man, mistaken for a woman? Or to be a woman, mistaken for a woman, and then correctly identified as a man?
I snigger intermittently all the way home. It would appear that I don't take my gender reassignment very seriously.
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